"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need a confidence builder. And a kick in the pants.

smeckle

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I lost my job today from Wal-Mart. I worked in Sporting Goods and there was a botched gun sale.

I'm blessed with the fact that I'm in no legal trouble, but it still sucks. I'm living on my own with three other guys. One of whom doesn't like me (But he's a d ick, so I don't care).

I need a boost of confidence. Any ideas? My girlfriend lives in Maine, while I reside in NC. I've got very little money.

It's a longggg story.

But, the bottom line, I need to start kicking ass and taking names. Strap on boots and walk the country side. Ya know?

All help is needed and appreciated.

Thanks so much.
`smeckle
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kyphan

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Go to a bookstore and pick up "The Greatest Salesman in the World" by Og Mandino and read it front to back. The book costs less than $10 and you can easily read the whole thing in under two hours. If you're not fired up at the end of that book, I don't know what else to tell you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Before you do anything else, go to Target, Cosco, FleetFarm, whatever store you guys have that competes with Walmart and apply for seasonal work. You may be able to start immediately with your background.
 

Derek Flint

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UPS and FedEx are also hiring seasonal workers, and for better pay than the discount stores.

Keep in mind that these positions will end right after Christmas, and that you must pass a drug test and background check.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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smeckle

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Hahahah Not a bad idea.

Just take the change at the end of the day. I'm heading out later to go look at jobs and pick up a copy of "The Greatest Salesman in the World". Thanks to kyphan, who recommended that.

Any other advice guys? Is there a bootcamp lesson or anything? haha.
 
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