"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I need a confidence builder. And a kick in the pants.

smeckle

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I lost my job today from Wal-Mart. I worked in Sporting Goods and there was a botched gun sale.

I'm blessed with the fact that I'm in no legal trouble, but it still sucks. I'm living on my own with three other guys. One of whom doesn't like me (But he's a d ick, so I don't care).

I need a boost of confidence. Any ideas? My girlfriend lives in Maine, while I reside in NC. I've got very little money.

It's a longggg story.

But, the bottom line, I need to start kicking ass and taking names. Strap on boots and walk the country side. Ya know?

All help is needed and appreciated.

Thanks so much.
`smeckle
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kyphan

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Go to a bookstore and pick up "The Greatest Salesman in the World" by Og Mandino and read it front to back. The book costs less than $10 and you can easily read the whole thing in under two hours. If you're not fired up at the end of that book, I don't know what else to tell you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Before you do anything else, go to Target, Cosco, FleetFarm, whatever store you guys have that competes with Walmart and apply for seasonal work. You may be able to start immediately with your background.
 

Derek Flint

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UPS and FedEx are also hiring seasonal workers, and for better pay than the discount stores.

Keep in mind that these positions will end right after Christmas, and that you must pass a drug test and background check.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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smeckle

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Hahahah Not a bad idea.

Just take the change at the end of the day. I'm heading out later to go look at jobs and pick up a copy of "The Greatest Salesman in the World". Thanks to kyphan, who recommended that.

Any other advice guys? Is there a bootcamp lesson or anything? haha.
 
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