in 3 months i am 20 years old and i cannot bear the shame and failure of failing to lose my virginity, so i have decided to hang myself before i turn 20 unles i have sex. i will report back heere every day maybe. then again maybe not.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i must have sex in the next 3 months
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Allllll righty then......
Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
i must have sex in the next 3 months
I think we can all relate to that.
I think we can all relate to that.
SavageKabbage
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I have sex with myself nearly every day. 
edit - find a prostitute.
edit - find a prostitute.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
that would be an awesome suicide note....
"I cant get sex... Fvck you all!"
...desperate times (and contemplating suicide is certainly one of them) call for desperate measures... fvck a fatty!
"I cant get sex... Fvck you all!"
...desperate times (and contemplating suicide is certainly one of them) call for desperate measures... fvck a fatty!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Being a virgin at 20 is nothing to kill yourself over. Hell I lost mine at 22. Go look for escorts and get it over with.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
If your willing to hang yourself before your 20th b-day cuz u don't get pvssy. Your a fvcking moron..... If your that desperate get a hooker!!!
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Well don't hang yourself. There are virgins twice your age, just like the movie.p3n15 said:
Myspace will get you laid if you are interested in that:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128126
Are you on myspace? If you follow instructions, the people who post in that thread, or have threads linked to from it can all help you a lot. The people who don't have success are not listening, or have some other hang-up that is preventing them from succeeding. But it's all in your head. You can have as much success with women as you want to have.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Hmmm, the definition of a man's worth is counts on the importance of female genitalia.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
well im 24 and a virgin..its fine bro..as long as you arent 40..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
L777
Master Don Juan
It was either Mystery or Juggler who lost their virginity at 22, and it might have been both....so, if this is serious, and you don't get laid before your b'day....don't kill yourself!!
It will all be Ok, trust me.
It will all be Ok, trust me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jsgii
Don Juan
Important don’t skip any steps.
1. Print out the DJ ( put it in a note book)
2. Read the DJ bible
3. Get a daily journal
4. Put the Bible into practice and record everything in the journal
5. Go back to step 2
Suggested readings: Pook be a man
The anti-dumps Machine
Remember don’t try to fix women. Work on yourself. Be the prize they want to have sex with. And they will fight to have sex with you. You are the prize.
1. Print out the DJ ( put it in a note book)
2. Read the DJ bible
3. Get a daily journal
4. Put the Bible into practice and record everything in the journal
5. Go back to step 2
Suggested readings: Pook be a man
The anti-dumps Machine
Remember don’t try to fix women. Work on yourself. Be the prize they want to have sex with. And they will fight to have sex with you. You are the prize.
knglerxt
Senior Don Juan
I'm 26 and still a virgin. I understand exactly what you're going through. It really sucks not being able to be intimate with a woman and knowing that most other guys are. Most people don't understand because they've never had to deal with the situation.
I've been severely depressed for 2 years because of this. I've contemplated suicide too, but I'm not going out like that. If some of the guys I see can date and have sex with women, any guy can. So I would hold off on the suicide thing. Just work on improving yourself and eventually you will meet someone. At least that's the way I'm dealing with it.
I've been severely depressed for 2 years because of this. I've contemplated suicide too, but I'm not going out like that. If some of the guys I see can date and have sex with women, any guy can. So I would hold off on the suicide thing. Just work on improving yourself and eventually you will meet someone. At least that's the way I'm dealing with it.
the root of your problem (not getting laid) is found in the premise of your post...
you my friend put too much emphasis on sex, hence not getting it...
if you reframe yourself and see sex as nothing more then just a natural act, you might get somewhere...
good luck.
you my friend put too much emphasis on sex, hence not getting it...
if you reframe yourself and see sex as nothing more then just a natural act, you might get somewhere...
good luck.
good at least someone here understands.DonJuan11 said:
btw i have changed my mind, instead of a rope i am using a knife and stabbing myself to death it apppeals to me more.
maybe a n atural act 4 women, and men who are born privileged and lucky to have a natural knakc for it, but for guy like me it is a struggle. this is like telign starvign african kid that eating is a natural act and stopo thinking about food.sav said:
btw tomorow i am in city and wull be trying to get women.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.