"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I might be entering the friend zone, how to avoid it ?

mikee

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Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jeffthechef

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the friend zone is not what you think it is
it's not where you arrive when you and that girl become friends

BEING FRIENDS IS FINE IN HIGH SCHOOL
sosuave material speaks avidly against the friend zone because most guys become afc's when they become friends with a girl....think about it...you probably have a friend that's a girl that you dont find attractive...well chances are you'll take her ****...if she asks you to do stuff for her or help her with probs..you normally don't mind because you're friends...

YOU'RE FINE...just kino and hang...you're fine
 

MisterMcGee

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If you know someone and have a good time with them, you're 'friends'. Doesn't mean you're in the horrible 'friend zone', you're just in one of her social circles most likely and she considers you a new friend.
 

mikee

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well thanks a lot guies you really got to make me feel better. :D
 

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mikee said:
Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
Why didn't you believe her? This is a sign of insecurity which not an attractive trait to a female. Did you tell yourself she blew your off, and is making up a lie? Of course she got mad. Even if she WASN'T interested in you, what is the reason for her to lie to you? Don't worry about being a friend. That's not the issue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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XYZhen

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There is no friend zone =/ If she wants you she wants you, if she doesnt, she doesnt, being friends holds no bearing on that fact. The *friend zone* is just an excuse.
 

Conquer

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Don't be so insecure, go with the flow. Better a lying women than an insecure man.
 
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