"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I might be entering the friend zone, how to avoid it ?

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Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the friend zone is not what you think it is
it's not where you arrive when you and that girl become friends

BEING FRIENDS IS FINE IN HIGH SCHOOL
sosuave material speaks avidly against the friend zone because most guys become afc's when they become friends with a girl....think about it...you probably have a friend that's a girl that you dont find attractive...well chances are you'll take her ****...if she asks you to do stuff for her or help her with probs..you normally don't mind because you're friends...

YOU'RE FINE...just kino and hang...you're fine
 
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If you know someone and have a good time with them, you're 'friends'. Doesn't mean you're in the horrible 'friend zone', you're just in one of her social circles most likely and she considers you a new friend.
 
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well thanks a lot guies you really got to make me feel better. :D
 
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mikee said:
Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
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Why didn't you believe her? This is a sign of insecurity which not an attractive trait to a female. Did you tell yourself she blew your off, and is making up a lie? Of course she got mad. Even if she WASN'T interested in you, what is the reason for her to lie to you? Don't worry about being a friend. That's not the issue.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is no friend zone =/ If she wants you she wants you, if she doesnt, she doesnt, being friends holds no bearing on that fact. The *friend zone* is just an excuse.
 
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Don't be so insecure, go with the flow. Better a lying women than an insecure man.
 
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