"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I might be entering the friend zone, how to avoid it ?

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Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the friend zone is not what you think it is
it's not where you arrive when you and that girl become friends

BEING FRIENDS IS FINE IN HIGH SCHOOL
sosuave material speaks avidly against the friend zone because most guys become afc's when they become friends with a girl....think about it...you probably have a friend that's a girl that you dont find attractive...well chances are you'll take her ****...if she asks you to do stuff for her or help her with probs..you normally don't mind because you're friends...

YOU'RE FINE...just kino and hang...you're fine
 
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If you know someone and have a good time with them, you're 'friends'. Doesn't mean you're in the horrible 'friend zone', you're just in one of her social circles most likely and she considers you a new friend.
 
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well thanks a lot guies you really got to make me feel better. :D
 
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mikee said:
Long story short, I was supposed to meet with a girl I want to bone. She said she couldn't because her parents couldn't drive to the city (she lives pretty far btw) and I told her I didn't believe her. So she got mad at me because I don't trust her and I was like "whatever" until she said "that's not how friends treat each other". That bit scared the **** out of me, I replied "trust has nothing to do with that" but still I'm not sure I did the right thing.
Either way, how do I avoid to get into the friend zone now ? :(
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Why didn't you believe her? This is a sign of insecurity which not an attractive trait to a female. Did you tell yourself she blew your off, and is making up a lie? Of course she got mad. Even if she WASN'T interested in you, what is the reason for her to lie to you? Don't worry about being a friend. That's not the issue.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no friend zone =/ If she wants you she wants you, if she doesnt, she doesnt, being friends holds no bearing on that fact. The *friend zone* is just an excuse.
 
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Don't be so insecure, go with the flow. Better a lying women than an insecure man.
 
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