DonJuanForever
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Still waiting on your pm, here...I'll pm you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.fuzzx said:wow 100 bucks... geez and a 1000 laptop to boot... what do you do that you make all this $$$?
ObieJuan said:1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.
In a response to DJF, who is now on my ignore list (for proving in this thread he is a complete douchecanoe) - there aren't stupid questions, just stupid people.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BAAAAHAHAHAHA!DonJuanForever said:Dasani, look, as I said, lol.
I just sent you a pm, if you want to meet, as I've said a million times, let's MEET. My pic will be up tomorrow, I'm not uploading that tonight I'm doin something, it'll be up so your chick can finger herself to it.
Now again, if you have anything else to say to me, pm me. Our discussion needs to be private not on the main page, it's making this thread long.
(Dasani to his girl) :flowers: "I'm an AFC...sorry, can't help it."
You're a trick cause you PAY FOR SEX. Its because you know that you are a douche. The girl would never go for you without your $cash$, andso you shower her with gifts to entice her to have sex with you.DasaniWater said:And ****, i had no idea that i just became a trick because i bought my girl a laptop. haha. damn i guess anyone who has money and buys a gift for his woman is a automatic trick right. you're rediculous.... please, dont give me your "love".
Anytime bro, glad to help.DasaniWater said:Wow.....great advice, at first glace i thought it was all just bashing me, but when i began reading i realized it was advice, very useful. THanks a lot kings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!