DonJuanForever
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Still waiting on your pm, here...I'll pm you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.fuzzx said:wow 100 bucks... geez and a 1000 laptop to boot... what do you do that you make all this $$$?
ObieJuan said:1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.
In a response to DJF, who is now on my ignore list (for proving in this thread he is a complete douchecanoe) - there aren't stupid questions, just stupid people.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BAAAAHAHAHAHA!DonJuanForever said:Dasani, look, as I said, lol.
I just sent you a pm, if you want to meet, as I've said a million times, let's MEET. My pic will be up tomorrow, I'm not uploading that tonight I'm doin something, it'll be up so your chick can finger herself to it.
Now again, if you have anything else to say to me, pm me. Our discussion needs to be private not on the main page, it's making this thread long.
(Dasani to his girl) :flowers: "I'm an AFC...sorry, can't help it."
You're a trick cause you PAY FOR SEX. Its because you know that you are a douche. The girl would never go for you without your $cash$, andso you shower her with gifts to entice her to have sex with you.DasaniWater said:And ****, i had no idea that i just became a trick because i bought my girl a laptop. haha. damn i guess anyone who has money and buys a gift for his woman is a automatic trick right. you're rediculous.... please, dont give me your "love".
Anytime bro, glad to help.DasaniWater said:Wow.....great advice, at first glace i thought it was all just bashing me, but when i began reading i realized it was advice, very useful. THanks a lot kings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!