DonJuanForever
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Still waiting on your pm, here...I'll pm you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.fuzzx said:wow 100 bucks... geez and a 1000 laptop to boot... what do you do that you make all this $$$?
ObieJuan said:1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.
In a response to DJF, who is now on my ignore list (for proving in this thread he is a complete douchecanoe) - there aren't stupid questions, just stupid people.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BAAAAHAHAHAHA!DonJuanForever said:Dasani, look, as I said, lol.
I just sent you a pm, if you want to meet, as I've said a million times, let's MEET. My pic will be up tomorrow, I'm not uploading that tonight I'm doin something, it'll be up so your chick can finger herself to it.
Now again, if you have anything else to say to me, pm me. Our discussion needs to be private not on the main page, it's making this thread long.
(Dasani to his girl) :flowers: "I'm an AFC...sorry, can't help it."
You're a trick cause you PAY FOR SEX. Its because you know that you are a douche. The girl would never go for you without your $cash$, andso you shower her with gifts to entice her to have sex with you.DasaniWater said:And ****, i had no idea that i just became a trick because i bought my girl a laptop. haha. damn i guess anyone who has money and buys a gift for his woman is a automatic trick right. you're rediculous.... please, dont give me your "love".
Anytime bro, glad to help.DasaniWater said:Wow.....great advice, at first glace i thought it was all just bashing me, but when i began reading i realized it was advice, very useful. THanks a lot kings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!