DonJuanForever
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Still waiting on your pm, here...I'll pm you.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.fuzzx said:wow 100 bucks... geez and a 1000 laptop to boot... what do you do that you make all this $$$?
ObieJuan said:1000 bucks isn't much money these days...especially if you make a halfway decent income, are single, have little overhead (bills, living expenses) and have no kids.
In a response to DJF, who is now on my ignore list (for proving in this thread he is a complete douchecanoe) - there aren't stupid questions, just stupid people.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BAAAAHAHAHAHA!DonJuanForever said:Dasani, look, as I said, lol.
I just sent you a pm, if you want to meet, as I've said a million times, let's MEET. My pic will be up tomorrow, I'm not uploading that tonight I'm doin something, it'll be up so your chick can finger herself to it.
Now again, if you have anything else to say to me, pm me. Our discussion needs to be private not on the main page, it's making this thread long.
(Dasani to his girl) :flowers: "I'm an AFC...sorry, can't help it."
You're a trick cause you PAY FOR SEX. Its because you know that you are a douche. The girl would never go for you without your $cash$, andso you shower her with gifts to entice her to have sex with you.DasaniWater said:And ****, i had no idea that i just became a trick because i bought my girl a laptop. haha. damn i guess anyone who has money and buys a gift for his woman is a automatic trick right. you're rediculous.... please, dont give me your "love".
Anytime bro, glad to help.DasaniWater said:Wow.....great advice, at first glace i thought it was all just bashing me, but when i began reading i realized it was advice, very useful. THanks a lot kings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!