I met a hot 19 year old HOT girl got her phone number then I called her 2 days later she seemed happy with my call I told her that I want to see her in the week end and that I will call her to fix a date and she agreed ,ok so I called her on sunday and told her that I will pick her up at 8 pm she told me that she cant go out at this time because she have an urgent work to do and that she will call me at 10:30 pm to pick her up. I know I should have canceled the date or postpone it but like a wuss I said YES! she didnt call at 10:30 pm! and the next day I called at night 2 times to verify why she didnt call and she didnt return my calls!! I am not mad at her I am mad at myself how can I do such weak needy thing! even though I have a gf and I am seeing another girl!! I feel like crap now I just want to recover and vent.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I made a weak wuss move
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
darkjedi
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This has happened to everyone at least once bro... The important thing is that you understand where you went wrong and I'm sure this won't happen again.
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I wouldn't have deleted her number but would have kept it around to send her a casual "what's up?" text message in 3 months or so. You might catch her at a time when she's bored or lonely and you might have another chance. I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together. 
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Really? I think that sounds like such a super wuss move.ParisParis said:I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together.
If a girl doesn't respond to a txt or call, i dont initiate contact until she does.
Someone Much cooler
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I don't burn bridges, but I would chase her either.