I met a hot 19 year old HOT girl got her phone number then I called her 2 days later she seemed happy with my call I told her that I want to see her in the week end and that I will call her to fix a date and she agreed ,ok so I called her on sunday and told her that I will pick her up at 8 pm she told me that she cant go out at this time because she have an urgent work to do and that she will call me at 10:30 pm to pick her up. I know I should have canceled the date or postpone it but like a wuss I said YES! she didnt call at 10:30 pm! and the next day I called at night 2 times to verify why she didnt call and she didnt return my calls!! I am not mad at her I am mad at myself how can I do such weak needy thing! even though I have a gf and I am seeing another girl!! I feel like crap now I just want to recover and vent.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I made a weak wuss move
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
darkjedi
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This has happened to everyone at least once bro... The important thing is that you understand where you went wrong and I'm sure this won't happen again.
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I wouldn't have deleted her number but would have kept it around to send her a casual "what's up?" text message in 3 months or so. You might catch her at a time when she's bored or lonely and you might have another chance. I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together. 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Really? I think that sounds like such a super wuss move.ParisParis said:I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together.
If a girl doesn't respond to a txt or call, i dont initiate contact until she does.
Someone Much cooler
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I don't burn bridges, but I would chase her either.