I met a hot 19 year old HOT girl got her phone number then I called her 2 days later she seemed happy with my call I told her that I want to see her in the week end and that I will call her to fix a date and she agreed ,ok so I called her on sunday and told her that I will pick her up at 8 pm she told me that she cant go out at this time because she have an urgent work to do and that she will call me at 10:30 pm to pick her up. I know I should have canceled the date or postpone it but like a wuss I said YES! she didnt call at 10:30 pm! and the next day I called at night 2 times to verify why she didnt call and she didnt return my calls!! I am not mad at her I am mad at myself how can I do such weak needy thing! even though I have a gf and I am seeing another girl!! I feel like crap now I just want to recover and vent.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I made a weak wuss move
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
darkjedi
Don Juan
This has happened to everyone at least once bro... The important thing is that you understand where you went wrong and I'm sure this won't happen again.
ParisParis
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I wouldn't have deleted her number but would have kept it around to send her a casual "what's up?" text message in 3 months or so. You might catch her at a time when she's bored or lonely and you might have another chance. I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together. 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Really? I think that sounds like such a super wuss move.ParisParis said:I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together.
If a girl doesn't respond to a txt or call, i dont initiate contact until she does.
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
I don't burn bridges, but I would chase her either.