I met a hot 19 year old HOT girl got her phone number then I called her 2 days later she seemed happy with my call I told her that I want to see her in the week end and that I will call her to fix a date and she agreed ,ok so I called her on sunday and told her that I will pick her up at 8 pm she told me that she cant go out at this time because she have an urgent work to do and that she will call me at 10:30 pm to pick her up. I know I should have canceled the date or postpone it but like a wuss I said YES! she didnt call at 10:30 pm! and the next day I called at night 2 times to verify why she didnt call and she didnt return my calls!! I am not mad at her I am mad at myself how can I do such weak needy thing! even though I have a gf and I am seeing another girl!! I feel like crap now I just want to recover and vent.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I made a weak wuss move
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
darkjedi
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This has happened to everyone at least once bro... The important thing is that you understand where you went wrong and I'm sure this won't happen again.
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I wouldn't have deleted her number but would have kept it around to send her a casual "what's up?" text message in 3 months or so. You might catch her at a time when she's bored or lonely and you might have another chance. I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together. 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Really? I think that sounds like such a super wuss move.ParisParis said:I text girls a few times, if they don't respond, I'll text them again a few months later and sometimes they respond nicely and we end up going to bed together.
If a girl doesn't respond to a txt or call, i dont initiate contact until she does.
Someone Much cooler
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I don't burn bridges, but I would chase her either.