"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I Love Cold Approaching!

mtlwlu

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I dunno about you guys, but I was out with my buddies this weekend, feeling really good because my team just won the cup (go pens go) and had the "nothing to lose" attitude, so my buddies dared me to approach a 40 year old at the pub gave her a massage and talked for about 5 minutes with her, then went to the club and got 2 numbers in the 15 minutes we were there before it closed for the night. My buddies on the way home were envious of how im fearless when it comes to cold approaches and I pride myself on that, I love it.

my best advice when cold approaching, is just use situational openers or observations works 100% of the time at least it does for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being able to cold approach is great.

I do it during the daytime all the time, if you can do that, you're already way ahead of most other men. It's a nice advantage to have.

I agree about the situational openers, they work very well. If you're walking down the street and a woman is walking towards you, and you can't see anything to comment on, a simple sincere opinion opener has always worked for me.
 

SickAgain

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I like cold approaches too. Ironically I like to compare them to jumping into a cold pool. You're nervous before you first jump in, its a crazy rush once you do jump in, and after a while you get used to it and its fun.

Anyways, depending on situations, the day time cold approach is usually situational. I can't do direct game well at all, for I feel its awkward for both parties. At night time, I'll just tap a girl on the side and say hi, since it's expected to socialize with complete strangers.
 
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