“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I Love Cold Approaching!

mtlwlu

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I dunno about you guys, but I was out with my buddies this weekend, feeling really good because my team just won the cup (go pens go) and had the "nothing to lose" attitude, so my buddies dared me to approach a 40 year old at the pub gave her a massage and talked for about 5 minutes with her, then went to the club and got 2 numbers in the 15 minutes we were there before it closed for the night. My buddies on the way home were envious of how im fearless when it comes to cold approaches and I pride myself on that, I love it.

my best advice when cold approaching, is just use situational openers or observations works 100% of the time at least it does for me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Being able to cold approach is great.

I do it during the daytime all the time, if you can do that, you're already way ahead of most other men. It's a nice advantage to have.

I agree about the situational openers, they work very well. If you're walking down the street and a woman is walking towards you, and you can't see anything to comment on, a simple sincere opinion opener has always worked for me.
 

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I like cold approaches too. Ironically I like to compare them to jumping into a cold pool. You're nervous before you first jump in, its a crazy rush once you do jump in, and after a while you get used to it and its fun.

Anyways, depending on situations, the day time cold approach is usually situational. I can't do direct game well at all, for I feel its awkward for both parties. At night time, I'll just tap a girl on the side and say hi, since it's expected to socialize with complete strangers.
 
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