"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Love Cold Approaching!

mtlwlu

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I dunno about you guys, but I was out with my buddies this weekend, feeling really good because my team just won the cup (go pens go) and had the "nothing to lose" attitude, so my buddies dared me to approach a 40 year old at the pub gave her a massage and talked for about 5 minutes with her, then went to the club and got 2 numbers in the 15 minutes we were there before it closed for the night. My buddies on the way home were envious of how im fearless when it comes to cold approaches and I pride myself on that, I love it.

my best advice when cold approaching, is just use situational openers or observations works 100% of the time at least it does for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Captain

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Being able to cold approach is great.

I do it during the daytime all the time, if you can do that, you're already way ahead of most other men. It's a nice advantage to have.

I agree about the situational openers, they work very well. If you're walking down the street and a woman is walking towards you, and you can't see anything to comment on, a simple sincere opinion opener has always worked for me.
 

SickAgain

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I like cold approaches too. Ironically I like to compare them to jumping into a cold pool. You're nervous before you first jump in, its a crazy rush once you do jump in, and after a while you get used to it and its fun.

Anyways, depending on situations, the day time cold approach is usually situational. I can't do direct game well at all, for I feel its awkward for both parties. At night time, I'll just tap a girl on the side and say hi, since it's expected to socialize with complete strangers.
 
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