"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Love Cold Approaching!

mtlwlu

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I dunno about you guys, but I was out with my buddies this weekend, feeling really good because my team just won the cup (go pens go) and had the "nothing to lose" attitude, so my buddies dared me to approach a 40 year old at the pub gave her a massage and talked for about 5 minutes with her, then went to the club and got 2 numbers in the 15 minutes we were there before it closed for the night. My buddies on the way home were envious of how im fearless when it comes to cold approaches and I pride myself on that, I love it.

my best advice when cold approaching, is just use situational openers or observations works 100% of the time at least it does for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Captain

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Being able to cold approach is great.

I do it during the daytime all the time, if you can do that, you're already way ahead of most other men. It's a nice advantage to have.

I agree about the situational openers, they work very well. If you're walking down the street and a woman is walking towards you, and you can't see anything to comment on, a simple sincere opinion opener has always worked for me.
 

SickAgain

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I like cold approaches too. Ironically I like to compare them to jumping into a cold pool. You're nervous before you first jump in, its a crazy rush once you do jump in, and after a while you get used to it and its fun.

Anyways, depending on situations, the day time cold approach is usually situational. I can't do direct game well at all, for I feel its awkward for both parties. At night time, I'll just tap a girl on the side and say hi, since it's expected to socialize with complete strangers.
 
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