“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"I like you" - IOI or LJBF

joe bloggs

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Went on a date with a lady banker that I met on a dating site. We met up for drinks and hit it off, about halfway through she said: "I like everything; I like my job, I liked my college, I like this restaurant, I like you" - is this an indication of interest or a LJBF?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy

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ioi... but misinterpret that anyway and say - "really... are you hitting on me.. i'm totally not boyfriend material.. lets find you a guy.. how's that one :)?"
 

r0cky

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Yes, thats an IOI, my discerning friend.
If she had said "I don't like you", that would not be an IOI.
Also, if she had said lets just be friends, then that would mean she has LJBF you.
I hope this helps.

BTW. I hope you're aware of my sarcasm.
 

Mavrick

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Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mavrick said:
Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
IOIs are not always accurate. IODs always are accurate. If things look good, go for it! The time you're wasting wondering whether this girl is into you or not is time you could be using to get attraction up and then get a date!
 

Jaxon

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Her saying "I like you" sounds more like a sh*t test than anything.

She was most likely testing you to see if you would crumble and goo and gush your feelings over her, or if you'd play it cool, or better yet not even really react.
 
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