“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"I like you" - IOI or LJBF

joe bloggs

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Went on a date with a lady banker that I met on a dating site. We met up for drinks and hit it off, about halfway through she said: "I like everything; I like my job, I liked my college, I like this restaurant, I like you" - is this an indication of interest or a LJBF?
 

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ioi... but misinterpret that anyway and say - "really... are you hitting on me.. i'm totally not boyfriend material.. lets find you a guy.. how's that one :)?"
 

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Yes, thats an IOI, my discerning friend.
If she had said "I don't like you", that would not be an IOI.
Also, if she had said lets just be friends, then that would mean she has LJBF you.
I hope this helps.

BTW. I hope you're aware of my sarcasm.
 

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Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Mavrick said:
Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
IOIs are not always accurate. IODs always are accurate. If things look good, go for it! The time you're wasting wondering whether this girl is into you or not is time you could be using to get attraction up and then get a date!
 

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Her saying "I like you" sounds more like a sh*t test than anything.

She was most likely testing you to see if you would crumble and goo and gush your feelings over her, or if you'd play it cool, or better yet not even really react.
 
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