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"I like you" - IOI or LJBF

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joe bloggs

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Went on a date with a lady banker that I met on a dating site. We met up for drinks and hit it off, about halfway through she said: "I like everything; I like my job, I liked my college, I like this restaurant, I like you" - is this an indication of interest or a LJBF?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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ioi... but misinterpret that anyway and say - "really... are you hitting on me.. i'm totally not boyfriend material.. lets find you a guy.. how's that one :)?"
 
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Yes, thats an IOI, my discerning friend.
If she had said "I don't like you", that would not be an IOI.
Also, if she had said lets just be friends, then that would mean she has LJBF you.
I hope this helps.

BTW. I hope you're aware of my sarcasm.
 
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Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Mavrick said:
Always assume attraction. don't waste your time with IOIs. Just go for it. Just go for what you want. You won't fail because you've tried, and that's a lot more than what most men will do. If you don't try, you've failed. Forget IOIs.

Assume it's on. Don't wait for her because you're the man. You're the leader. Guess what! You'll save yourself a lot of time by assuming attraction.
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IOIs are not always accurate. IODs always are accurate. If things look good, go for it! The time you're wasting wondering whether this girl is into you or not is time you could be using to get attraction up and then get a date!
 
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Jaxon

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Her saying "I like you" sounds more like a sh*t test than anything.

She was most likely testing you to see if you would crumble and goo and gush your feelings over her, or if you'd play it cool, or better yet not even really react.
 
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