"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Like This Girl But I Rarely See Her.

Dragoo

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I use to see her every wednesday at the start of the semester because we were in a program but now that program is over with. Now I don't really see her anymore. We are on the same College Campus. Anybody know what I should do??? I don't have a myspace or facebook or anything like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hondo928

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Hope you see her, and then make sure you say something, this happened to me and I grabbed a pair and talked to her got her number and things went well for a while. I mean there's nothing else you can do if you don't have her number or anything. But why don't you have a facebook?
 

L B

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Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
 

Dragoo

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L B said:
Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
It was a student support service program. I was with my tutor and she was with hers. We didn't really have time to talk. I ment to talk to her on the last day though but I didn't show up that day. I got sick.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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alnite

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Stalk her.


No seriously, don't. Just forget about her and move on. At this point in time, you should be talking to other girls instead of thinking about her.
 
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