"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Like This Girl But I Rarely See Her.

Dragoo

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I use to see her every wednesday at the start of the semester because we were in a program but now that program is over with. Now I don't really see her anymore. We are on the same College Campus. Anybody know what I should do??? I don't have a myspace or facebook or anything like that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hondo928

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Hope you see her, and then make sure you say something, this happened to me and I grabbed a pair and talked to her got her number and things went well for a while. I mean there's nothing else you can do if you don't have her number or anything. But why don't you have a facebook?
 

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Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
 

Dragoo

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L B said:
Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
It was a student support service program. I was with my tutor and she was with hers. We didn't really have time to talk. I ment to talk to her on the last day though but I didn't show up that day. I got sick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stalk her.


No seriously, don't. Just forget about her and move on. At this point in time, you should be talking to other girls instead of thinking about her.
 
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