"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Like This Girl But I Rarely See Her.

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I use to see her every wednesday at the start of the semester because we were in a program but now that program is over with. Now I don't really see her anymore. We are on the same College Campus. Anybody know what I should do??? I don't have a myspace or facebook or anything like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hondo928

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Hope you see her, and then make sure you say something, this happened to me and I grabbed a pair and talked to her got her number and things went well for a while. I mean there's nothing else you can do if you don't have her number or anything. But why don't you have a facebook?
 
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Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
 
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L B said:
Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
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It was a student support service program. I was with my tutor and she was with hers. We didn't really have time to talk. I ment to talk to her on the last day though but I didn't show up that day. I got sick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stalk her.


No seriously, don't. Just forget about her and move on. At this point in time, you should be talking to other girls instead of thinking about her.
 
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