"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

I Like This Girl But I Rarely See Her.

D

Dragoo

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2008
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
I use to see her every wednesday at the start of the semester because we were in a program but now that program is over with. Now I don't really see her anymore. We are on the same College Campus. Anybody know what I should do??? I don't have a myspace or facebook or anything like that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

H

hondo928

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2008
Messages
89
Reaction score
0
Hope you see her, and then make sure you say something, this happened to me and I grabbed a pair and talked to her got her number and things went well for a while. I mean there's nothing else you can do if you don't have her number or anything. But why don't you have a facebook?
 
L

L B

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2004
Messages
526
Reaction score
9
Location
OC
Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
 
D

Dragoo

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2008
Messages
23
Reaction score
0
L B said:
Not to be rude or anything. Are you kidding me? When you saw her in person, you make no attempt at communicating with her. Now that that opportunity is gone, what would you do even if you have myspace or other tools.

Best advice for you is to check out the DJ Bible and work on the basics. All the internet tools cannot replace the basics of face to face contact and communications.
Click to expand...
It was a student support service program. I was with my tutor and she was with hers. We didn't really have time to talk. I ment to talk to her on the last day though but I didn't show up that day. I got sick.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

A

alnite

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2004
Messages
115
Reaction score
1
Location
Big Bad California
Stalk her.


No seriously, don't. Just forget about her and move on. At this point in time, you should be talking to other girls instead of thinking about her.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top