"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I lead the phone conversation and ended first, now she thinks i'm hesitant??

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I've known this girl for a while and we decided to go out because she's moving away in a few months. We talked on the phone to set up a date..and I led the convo, and ended the conversation. She emails me a few days later, saying that I seemed hesitant & uncomfortable (i totally don't think i was)...and that if I didn't want to catch up and meet, that was ok by her. What is wrong with this girl?!?!? Or am I just playing hot & cold on her and didnt even know it...

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if she thinks u sounded uncomfortable, u probably sounded uncomfortable.

relax next time, man
 
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i have a lot of experience talking to women, i talk for a living, I know it wasn't because i came accross as uncomfortable
 
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maybe she's not used to guys ending conversations with her first...thus she felt i came across as disinterested?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.
 
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seagull said:
I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.
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UPDATE:

So i cleared things up with her and told her that I didn't mean to 'hurt her feelings'...and we went out again. We had a great time, and now she's texting me saying she had a great time, and asking me how my day's been...
 
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