I lead the phone conversation and ended first, now she thinks i'm hesitant??

[VictorK]

I've known this girl for a while and we decided to go out because she's moving away in a few months. We talked on the phone to set up a date..and I led the convo, and ended the conversation. She emails me a few days later, saying that I seemed hesitant & uncomfortable (i totally don't think i was)...and that if I didn't want to catch up and meet, that was ok by her. What is wrong with this girl?!?!? Or am I just playing hot & cold on her and didnt even know it...

thanks for the input gentlemen

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

if she thinks u sounded uncomfortable, u probably sounded uncomfortable.

relax next time, man

 

[VictorK]

i have a lot of experience talking to women, i talk for a living, I know it wasn't because i came accross as uncomfortable

 

[VictorK]

maybe she's not used to guys ending conversations with her first...thus she felt i came across as disinterested?

 

[VictorK]

guys, i'm not worried about it....i'm just curious...

 

[seagull]

I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.

 

[VictorK]

I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.

UPDATE:

So i cleared things up with her and told her that I didn't mean to 'hurt her feelings'...and we went out again. We had a great time, and now she's texting me saying she had a great time, and asking me how my day's been...