"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I lead the phone conversation and ended first, now she thinks i'm hesitant??

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I've known this girl for a while and we decided to go out because she's moving away in a few months. We talked on the phone to set up a date..and I led the convo, and ended the conversation. She emails me a few days later, saying that I seemed hesitant & uncomfortable (i totally don't think i was)...and that if I didn't want to catch up and meet, that was ok by her. What is wrong with this girl?!?!? Or am I just playing hot & cold on her and didnt even know it...

thanks for the input gentlemen
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if she thinks u sounded uncomfortable, u probably sounded uncomfortable.

relax next time, man
 
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i have a lot of experience talking to women, i talk for a living, I know it wasn't because i came accross as uncomfortable
 
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maybe she's not used to guys ending conversations with her first...thus she felt i came across as disinterested?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.
 
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seagull said:
I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, you've sent her mixed signals and got her thinking about you.
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UPDATE:

So i cleared things up with her and told her that I didn't mean to 'hurt her feelings'...and we went out again. We had a great time, and now she's texting me saying she had a great time, and asking me how my day's been...
 
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