Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).Cableguy said:I would've said "I'm kinda busy."
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
that fits my style perfectly.....on another note STOKED cuz shes a chill ass DIME thanks for the responsesTheBucketOfTruth said:Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).
To each his own. I probably would have said "you kinda should do something about that," or some variation on that theme.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Of course you have to take into account things like that. In my original response I said I would've replied that I was "kinda" busy. I wouldn't ignore the text totally unless I was with another girl.Wolf said:Erm, did you think that maybe the girl is a little nervous? Sometimes they say stuff like "I kind of like you" instead of being more direct because they are a little uncomfortable/nervous. I mean, she's being direct enough like that. I don't know man, but I wouldn't blow her off.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I like that.. thats prolly the right response IMO.TheBucketOfTruth said:Unless the girl is a true attention ***** and you know she won't fool around with you, this seems like you'd be playing too hard to get (assuming you aren't actually busy).
To each his own. I probably would have said "you kinda should do something about that," or some variation on that theme.