JohnnyStrabler
Don Juan
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...-the-cowardly-lion-just-masturbating-too-much
I'll just leave this here
I'll just leave this here
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thispinhas said:Interesting; I always wondered about the connection between masturbation and your social life. Many believe that decreasing and eventually stopping masturbation could beneficial to many aspects of ones life, yet others say to "never go out with a loaded gun".
I think I will try to avoid doing it for a while, its been something I wanted to do for a while, and now seems like a good time.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
this is going to be a bit tough for me, cause I sometimes choke the chicken so I can fall asleep at night when oneitis hits me....yes its that bad, the last time I went for 20 days without doing it was 6 years ago when I was 14, and that was for religious purposesSwift Shadow said:I've known that it works for quite a while now, if you want more evidence go read the massive thread in the archive about it.
This link is posted in there also, i'm currently on an abstinence streak right now, coming up for day 7