JohnnyStrabler
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...-the-cowardly-lion-just-masturbating-too-much
I'll just leave this here
I'll just leave this here
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thispinhas said:Interesting; I always wondered about the connection between masturbation and your social life. Many believe that decreasing and eventually stopping masturbation could beneficial to many aspects of ones life, yet others say to "never go out with a loaded gun".
I think I will try to avoid doing it for a while, its been something I wanted to do for a while, and now seems like a good time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
this is going to be a bit tough for me, cause I sometimes choke the chicken so I can fall asleep at night when oneitis hits me....yes its that bad, the last time I went for 20 days without doing it was 6 years ago when I was 14, and that was for religious purposesSwift Shadow said:I've known that it works for quite a while now, if you want more evidence go read the massive thread in the archive about it.
This link is posted in there also, i'm currently on an abstinence streak right now, coming up for day 7