"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

I just want to share this with you

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

P

pinhas

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2009
Messages
212
Reaction score
3
Location
NYC
Interesting; I always wondered about the connection between masturbation and your social life. Many believe that decreasing and eventually stopping masturbation could beneficial to many aspects of ones life, yet others say to "never go out with a loaded gun".

I think I will try to avoid doing it for a while, its been something I wanted to do for a while, and now seems like a good time.
 
B

BBbardot

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2011
Messages
221
Reaction score
8
pinhas said:
Interesting; I always wondered about the connection between masturbation and your social life. Many believe that decreasing and eventually stopping masturbation could beneficial to many aspects of ones life, yet others say to "never go out with a loaded gun".

I think I will try to avoid doing it for a while, its been something I wanted to do for a while, and now seems like a good time.
Click to expand...
this


I realised that when i'm horny and just don't do nothing about it i'm more sociable, more affectionate with friends, more sensual, more funny, more sexual. And the whole thing put me in a better mood and make me a cooler person to be around.

although when i'm not with my bf, I can't keep my hand out of my panties more than a week, that's the limit of the experience:).
 
J

JohnnyStrabler

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 28, 2011
Messages
146
Reaction score
4
This thread is now a "no fap" thread

Day 0

I just did, as the last one. Now doing my chem homework.
 
H

HolyG

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2006
Messages
485
Reaction score
16
If anyone doubts the effectiveness DO IT FOR YOURSELF. IT works. BBardot is right (for once).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

S

Swift Shadow

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2010
Messages
39
Reaction score
1
I've known that it works for quite a while now, if you want more evidence go read the massive thread in the archive about it.

This link is posted in there also, i'm currently on an abstinence streak right now, coming up for day 7
 
J

JohnnyStrabler

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 28, 2011
Messages
146
Reaction score
4
Swift Shadow said:
I've known that it works for quite a while now, if you want more evidence go read the massive thread in the archive about it.

This link is posted in there also, i'm currently on an abstinence streak right now, coming up for day 7
Click to expand...
this is going to be a bit tough for me, cause I sometimes choke the chicken so I can fall asleep at night when oneitis hits me....yes its that bad, the last time I went for 20 days without doing it was 6 years ago when I was 14, and that was for religious purposes

and its bad enough i am taking a testosterone booster now...tsk tsk....

oh and apologies, i did not know this link was posted on that already.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top