JohnnyStrabler
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...-the-cowardly-lion-just-masturbating-too-much
I'll just leave this here
I'll just leave this here
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thispinhas said:Interesting; I always wondered about the connection between masturbation and your social life. Many believe that decreasing and eventually stopping masturbation could beneficial to many aspects of ones life, yet others say to "never go out with a loaded gun".
I think I will try to avoid doing it for a while, its been something I wanted to do for a while, and now seems like a good time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
this is going to be a bit tough for me, cause I sometimes choke the chicken so I can fall asleep at night when oneitis hits me....yes its that bad, the last time I went for 20 days without doing it was 6 years ago when I was 14, and that was for religious purposesSwift Shadow said:I've known that it works for quite a while now, if you want more evidence go read the massive thread in the archive about it.
This link is posted in there also, i'm currently on an abstinence streak right now, coming up for day 7