"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i just want love
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
taiyuu_otoko
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few get it
that's red pill....
RickTheToad
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MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
only to meet shytty low quality women not worth any effort.
Then one day I just did a approach like the million of others times I had then bam....
we just spent the whole weekend in bed ...
Don"t give up.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ranger
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Do you want to feel your idealistic love? Or do you want her to feel love?
What is your version of love? If it’s like the idea you grow up with, you’re in for a world of hurt. There’s no such thing. It is conditional and always will be.
AJ84
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You come across as not actually liking women, and you did state that you feel hatred towards them so, why would any girl want to love that?
Sorry if this offends but that kind of vibe is very easily picked up on by most women and it’s a repellant. Women don’t want bitter men just like men don’t want bitter women and you do come across as bitter.
I’m sure you have your reasons for that, but it would benefit you to do some soul searching into your mindset and how something there may be a barrier to your dating goals.
Time to stop being toxic
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i hate em but im actually quite nice
Says the guy who calls bus drivers beta males cuz they dont let him inside at other places than bus stop
corrector
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If you are unable to get this then what would be your plan B?
I don't think a woman can offer the same type of love that only God can. I mean, if you look at it, allot of women have demons in them, they are mentally unstable, and any love they can possibly offer has to be some demonic manipulation on them or something very selfish that you'll find out soon enough it's not real. Unless a woman really knows the Lord, I don't think she can even know what love is unless she experienced it first hand from Jesus and gets born-again. But out there in the world (i.e. and that includes most of the church as well), I doubt anyone even understand what love is.
Dont mention Jesus or @brixlingo will call you coward
Ranger
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Just love him brixlingo. He just wants to be loved.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GrowingPains
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You buggin', G.
oldmanofthesea
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Women are like biological lie-detectors. They can tell the difference between someone who really likes them vs someone who doesn't and is just trying to be nice.