"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i just want love
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko
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few get it
that's red pill....
RickTheToad
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MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
only to meet shytty low quality women not worth any effort.
Then one day I just did a approach like the million of others times I had then bam....
we just spent the whole weekend in bed ...
Don"t give up.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ranger
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Do you want to feel your idealistic love? Or do you want her to feel love?
What is your version of love? If it’s like the idea you grow up with, you’re in for a world of hurt. There’s no such thing. It is conditional and always will be.
AJ84
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You come across as not actually liking women, and you did state that you feel hatred towards them so, why would any girl want to love that?
Sorry if this offends but that kind of vibe is very easily picked up on by most women and it’s a repellant. Women don’t want bitter men just like men don’t want bitter women and you do come across as bitter.
I’m sure you have your reasons for that, but it would benefit you to do some soul searching into your mindset and how something there may be a barrier to your dating goals.
Time to stop being toxic
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i hate em but im actually quite nice
Says the guy who calls bus drivers beta males cuz they dont let him inside at other places than bus stop
corrector
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If you are unable to get this then what would be your plan B?
I don't think a woman can offer the same type of love that only God can. I mean, if you look at it, allot of women have demons in them, they are mentally unstable, and any love they can possibly offer has to be some demonic manipulation on them or something very selfish that you'll find out soon enough it's not real. Unless a woman really knows the Lord, I don't think she can even know what love is unless she experienced it first hand from Jesus and gets born-again. But out there in the world (i.e. and that includes most of the church as well), I doubt anyone even understand what love is.
Dont mention Jesus or @brixlingo will call you coward
Ranger
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Just love him brixlingo. He just wants to be loved.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GrowingPains
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You buggin', G.
oldmanofthesea
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Women are like biological lie-detectors. They can tell the difference between someone who really likes them vs someone who doesn't and is just trying to be nice.