"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just met this girl.....

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Just Another Guy....

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We have talked one time, and I haven't done anything else yet. I didn't get a number or anything, but I need to ask some advice first.


She seems.... somewhat interested. She initiated kino a little after we met, and I went along with it. I kept her smiling and laughing the whole time we were together.

We were going around campus learning about all the clubs and sports and stuff..... She stopped at one about football, and I was standing next to her. I was like "You should considering going over to that table." I pointed at the Gay/Lesbian table, and she started cracking up. She hit me pretty hard on my arm, and smiled. She even came back with a few neg hits of her own. We had a pretty good time. :)


Anywho...... I've been keeping tabs on her for a few days,(Yeah, I admit it) and I've learned she's 'In A Relationship' according to facebook. Outside of that, I have no idea about the relationship. I don't know who, how long, where.... etc.... anything.... So.... I'm wondering, should I keep playfully talking to her, and get her number, and try to set up dates or something? Or should I just occasionally say "Hey." and wait until she's out of a relationship? (idk, maybe she'll never be...)


Anyone have any ideas...?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yea get her number, who cares if she has a BF. I had a girl offer me her number while she was in a relationship. No biggie, but then again, im 15 years old, what do i know?
 
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Before you self-implode - garner if there are signs of interest! Is she just being chummy or romantic??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dont believe her facebook crap, shes done that to make weirdos stay away. Looks like a green light to me ask her out already, and you better come back with a kiss.
 
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SmokeyTx said:
I personally dont like going for women who are in a relationship, but you can keep up the playfull banter, and even tease her about her relationship.... "you didnt have a chance with me anyway"...:kick:
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omg that line is genius, im too stupid to think of good stuff like that :cuss:
 
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