"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I just met this girl.....

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Just Another Guy....

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We have talked one time, and I haven't done anything else yet. I didn't get a number or anything, but I need to ask some advice first.


She seems.... somewhat interested. She initiated kino a little after we met, and I went along with it. I kept her smiling and laughing the whole time we were together.

We were going around campus learning about all the clubs and sports and stuff..... She stopped at one about football, and I was standing next to her. I was like "You should considering going over to that table." I pointed at the Gay/Lesbian table, and she started cracking up. She hit me pretty hard on my arm, and smiled. She even came back with a few neg hits of her own. We had a pretty good time. :)


Anywho...... I've been keeping tabs on her for a few days,(Yeah, I admit it) and I've learned she's 'In A Relationship' according to facebook. Outside of that, I have no idea about the relationship. I don't know who, how long, where.... etc.... anything.... So.... I'm wondering, should I keep playfully talking to her, and get her number, and try to set up dates or something? Or should I just occasionally say "Hey." and wait until she's out of a relationship? (idk, maybe she'll never be...)


Anyone have any ideas...?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yea get her number, who cares if she has a BF. I had a girl offer me her number while she was in a relationship. No biggie, but then again, im 15 years old, what do i know?
 
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Before you self-implode - garner if there are signs of interest! Is she just being chummy or romantic??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont believe her facebook crap, shes done that to make weirdos stay away. Looks like a green light to me ask her out already, and you better come back with a kiss.
 
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SmokeyTx said:
I personally dont like going for women who are in a relationship, but you can keep up the playfull banter, and even tease her about her relationship.... "you didnt have a chance with me anyway"...:kick:
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omg that line is genius, im too stupid to think of good stuff like that :cuss:
 
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