"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just met this girl.....

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We have talked one time, and I haven't done anything else yet. I didn't get a number or anything, but I need to ask some advice first.


She seems.... somewhat interested. She initiated kino a little after we met, and I went along with it. I kept her smiling and laughing the whole time we were together.

We were going around campus learning about all the clubs and sports and stuff..... She stopped at one about football, and I was standing next to her. I was like "You should considering going over to that table." I pointed at the Gay/Lesbian table, and she started cracking up. She hit me pretty hard on my arm, and smiled. She even came back with a few neg hits of her own. We had a pretty good time. :)


Anywho...... I've been keeping tabs on her for a few days,(Yeah, I admit it) and I've learned she's 'In A Relationship' according to facebook. Outside of that, I have no idea about the relationship. I don't know who, how long, where.... etc.... anything.... So.... I'm wondering, should I keep playfully talking to her, and get her number, and try to set up dates or something? Or should I just occasionally say "Hey." and wait until she's out of a relationship? (idk, maybe she'll never be...)


Anyone have any ideas...?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HandyAndy

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Yea get her number, who cares if she has a BF. I had a girl offer me her number while she was in a relationship. No biggie, but then again, im 15 years old, what do i know?
 
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Before you self-implode - garner if there are signs of interest! Is she just being chummy or romantic??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dont believe her facebook crap, shes done that to make weirdos stay away. Looks like a green light to me ask her out already, and you better come back with a kiss.
 

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SmokeyTx said:
I personally dont like going for women who are in a relationship, but you can keep up the playfull banter, and even tease her about her relationship.... "you didnt have a chance with me anyway"...:kick:
omg that line is genius, im too stupid to think of good stuff like that :cuss:
 
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