dustmuffin
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Texting with a HB 9 and challenged her to a wrestling match. I think she is up for it. She works out. So I will keep you updated. Lots of banter ect.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I just challenged a HB 9 to a wrestling match.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Its a done deal. She said she would punch Kevin the ball sack because I called her granny. Then I said I would twist her nipple off. This could evolve into some really hot sex.
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Thanks for the tips.
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Waiting on that update bro
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I have had a sinus infection since last week. So it might be a while. I haven't been to work for a week. I have been taking steroids and an antibiotic. I will start up the banter again probably Wednesday.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Update: she has left on an overseas trip. Will be gone for a month.
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I will tease her till she does. She has a love/hate relationship with me. I have done kind things for her but have been an incredidible ass hole too. We will see. Rejection is better than regret.....
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do you have a wrestling fetish or something? why wouldnt you just invite her over...though wrestling is a good physical ice breaker i suppose, but i don't see why go that route unless it's a fetish. just make it fun, tickle her and stuff
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I have a midget fetish...love those sausage fingers.....sent one final text before she left. Told her she was getting old and I had changed. I was no longer an ass hole. ....she replied prove it and she was gonna throat punch me for the old joke with an lol....ah true love....she is taking a trip around the world. I might go around the world when she gets back.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Nope..she works in media for an international non profit. She is going on a work trip. Africa, phillipines and China. I used to work there too editing their TV program. I am almost cured of my sickness ty for asking!