dustmuffin
Master Don Juan
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Texting with a HB 9 and challenged her to a wrestling match. I think she is up for it. She works out. So I will keep you updated. Lots of banter ect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Its a done deal. She said she would punch Kevin the ball sack because I called her granny. Then I said I would twist her nipple off. This could evolve into some really hot sex.Cool stuff brother. This always ends well.
Thanks for the tips.Yes it could. But it also could not.
Play your cards right. Don't be too eager / needy, be playful, tease her, and turn her on with your masculinity.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
don't forget to make a video, and upload it to youporn, if that ever happens...
don't forget to make a video, and upload it to youporn, if that ever happens...
I have a midget fetish...love those sausage fingers.....sent one final text before she left. Told her she was getting old and I had changed. I was no longer an ass hole. ....she replied prove it and she was gonna throat punch me for the old joke with an lol....ah true love....she is taking a trip around the world. I might go around the world when she gets back.do you have a wrestling fetish or something? why wouldnt you just invite her over...though wrestling is a good physical ice breaker i suppose, but i don't see why go that route unless it's a fetish. just make it fun, tickle her and stuff
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have had a sinus infection since last week. So it might be a while. I haven't been to work for a week. I have been taking steroids and an antibiotic. I will start up the banter again probably Wednesday.
___________Update: she has left on an overseas trip. Will be gone for a month.