I haven't so much as kissed a girl in 4 months

[Eternal_water]

I have no potential targets to call up atm so I have to get someone brand new.

Given I have a job in a club has anyone got any chat up routes I could try out?

 

[Mike32ct]

What do you do at the club? We need more info.

 

[Eternal_water]

I work in 1 of the 3 cloakrooms, take peoples stuff when they arrive and give it back as they go

 

[Mike32ct]

I believe that simple, even lame openers are best. This is because you are testing the waters to see if she WANTS to talk to you. Sometimes too clever or funny or interesting an opener can MASK her low interest because you are entertaining her.

Consider the context. People are LEAVING a CLUB. I'd ask every girl...

"Did you have a good night?"

Or

"Did you have fun tonight?"

Most will give one word answers. That's ok. But a few will try to continue the conversation with you. Maybe follow up with "Are you a good dancer?" (Chicks like to talk about dance even if they suck at it lol.)

Fluff talk a bit and try for a number. "I gotta get back to work, but we should talk sometime. What's your number?"

The point I want to drive home is you don't need a fancy script. If she finds you attractive and wants to talk to you, you can talk about anything. Test the waters, and then proceed.

 

[plate's_empty]

If you work at a club, doesn't matter what you do, unless it's in the men's bathroom handing out paper towels, chicks will want to bang you. Especially the insecure, young chicks. Make it happen, you don't need to much game, the club is your game. Like Mike said above, say something simple, smile...all you might have to do is be friendly.

 

[Eternal_water]

ok thx guys, will try it out.

 

[SirFratserlot]

get a better group of friends

 

[Eternal_water]

That on the other hand isn't so helpful

 

[SirFratserlot]

That on the other hand isn't so helpful

Lets be real, cold approaching is useless and a waste of time these days. Girls will trust you more if youre in their social circle and it be easier to meet them. Become friends with guys that know a lot of girls or have connections.

 

[Mike32ct]

Lets be real, cold approaching is useless and a waste of time these days. Girls will trust you more if youre in their social circle and it be easier to meet them. Become friends with guys that know a lot of girls or have connections.

I know what you are saying, but it's not exactly the same as a random guy visiting the club doing an approach.

The idea is for the OP to be friendly and chat up the girls as they approach to get their coats or drop them off (or both ideally). As a staff member, he's considered "safe" and possibly has some "status." He gets a free pass to flirt with girls because staff is supposed to be friendly (at a good club lol).

 

[VladPatton]

Chat the piss out of them on the way out when they're tipsy. Make it known when your shift ends. I'm not saying it's foolproof, but you gotta experiment and see where it takes you. Also, have a place in mind to go to in case one, two, three of them say yes.

 

[Hydrak]

Lets be real, cold approaching is useless and a waste of time these days. Girls will trust you more if youre in their social circle and it be easier to meet them. Become friends with guys that know a lot of girls or have connections.

Why would cold approaching be useless? That's pretty much the dumbest sentence I've read this month. Only someone who never had the balls to try it would say that.

So what you are saying is its more effective to find new social circles to have a shot at a few girls, instead of just hooking up with tons of random girls outside/at your workplace?

A girl who is drunk doesn't think as much of the social rules around her, instead she goes more with natural impulses. If you play your cards right and try to talk to as many girls as possible and getting as many numbers as possible, you will be flooded in poontang.