I have trouble reaching orgasm

[Vice]

I guess this is a problem that many of you would like to have, but I have alot of trouble getting rock hard and reaching orgasm. Last night we went for it for hours, taking breaks. She got off several times, and I didn't get off until the next morning.

I think it might be an issue with me being nervous? That would explain why I was able to do it in the morning; I was more relaxed.

I'm 18, and I've been with three girls including this one, and I've had the problem before. This is actually the first time I've had a female get me off.

Anyone with similar experiences?

 

[cola]

Yep..
When I want to *** I bang her as hard as I can ..
And while I'm banging her ask her questions like
"Whose pvssy is this" or "Say my name"
And if they give me the wrong answer I bang them harder..

I'm squirting in 2 minutes or less at this pace..

 

[cola]

Double post..
Stupid g1 phone
My bad

 

[Captain]

It's done to you being nervous, or performance anxiety. Relaxing (easier said than done) and experience will help you along.

 

[Mr_rogers]

The more you focus on trying to orgasm, the less likely it is to happen. Just try to enjoy the sex for what it is.

 

[Dante420]

Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young

 

[handle]

Yeah, instead of thinking "I gotta *** now" give yourself a moment to be like "damn, this feels really really good"

I used to have issues too, man. It'll take a little while because you've 'programmed' yourself to be this way.

 

[speakeasy]

I have the opposite problem. Feels so good I could bust in 1 minute if I let myself. That's mainly a problem if I'm hitting it with no condom.

 

[Colossus]

Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young

I used to get this. Now, never. It's normal, dont worry. It should go away once you get to work

I remember once when I was still a virgin, I had this girl in her room, took her shirt off, and I was so freaking nervous I was literally shaking. She told me to realx but I couldnt. Needless to say, she put her shirt back on and cuddled with me that night. I remained a virgin for some months after that.