"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have trouble reaching orgasm

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I guess this is a problem that many of you would like to have, but I have alot of trouble getting rock hard and reaching orgasm. Last night we went for it for hours, taking breaks. She got off several times, and I didn't get off until the next morning.

I think it might be an issue with me being nervous? That would explain why I was able to do it in the morning; I was more relaxed.

I'm 18, and I've been with three girls including this one, and I've had the problem before. This is actually the first time I've had a female get me off.

Anyone with similar experiences?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yep..
When I want to *** I bang her as hard as I can ..
And while I'm banging her ask her questions like
"Whose pvssy is this" or "Say my name"
And if they give me the wrong answer I bang them harder..

I'm squirting in 2 minutes or less at this pace..
 
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The more you focus on trying to orgasm, the less likely it is to happen. Just try to enjoy the sex for what it is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young
 
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Yeah, instead of thinking "I gotta *** now" give yourself a moment to be like "damn, this feels really really good"

I used to have issues too, man. It'll take a little while because you've 'programmed' yourself to be this way.
 
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I have the opposite problem. Feels so good I could bust in 1 minute if I let myself. That's mainly a problem if I'm hitting it with no condom.
 
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Dante420 said:
Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young
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I used to get this. Now, never. It's normal, dont worry. It should go away once you get to work :)

I remember once when I was still a virgin, I had this girl in her room, took her shirt off, and I was so freaking nervous I was literally shaking. She told me to realx but I couldnt. Needless to say, she put her shirt back on and cuddled with me that night. I remained a virgin for some months after that.
 
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