"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have trouble reaching orgasm

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Vice

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I guess this is a problem that many of you would like to have, but I have alot of trouble getting rock hard and reaching orgasm. Last night we went for it for hours, taking breaks. She got off several times, and I didn't get off until the next morning.

I think it might be an issue with me being nervous? That would explain why I was able to do it in the morning; I was more relaxed.

I'm 18, and I've been with three girls including this one, and I've had the problem before. This is actually the first time I've had a female get me off.

Anyone with similar experiences?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yep..
When I want to *** I bang her as hard as I can ..
And while I'm banging her ask her questions like
"Whose pvssy is this" or "Say my name"
And if they give me the wrong answer I bang them harder..

I'm squirting in 2 minutes or less at this pace..
 
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The more you focus on trying to orgasm, the less likely it is to happen. Just try to enjoy the sex for what it is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young
 
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Yeah, instead of thinking "I gotta *** now" give yourself a moment to be like "damn, this feels really really good"

I used to have issues too, man. It'll take a little while because you've 'programmed' yourself to be this way.
 
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I have the opposite problem. Feels so good I could bust in 1 minute if I let myself. That's mainly a problem if I'm hitting it with no condom.
 
Colossus

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Dante420 said:
Anyone else have any problems with nervousness and anxiety, before and during sex?

Tips. . . . .. I'm young
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I used to get this. Now, never. It's normal, dont worry. It should go away once you get to work :)

I remember once when I was still a virgin, I had this girl in her room, took her shirt off, and I was so freaking nervous I was literally shaking. She told me to realx but I couldnt. Needless to say, she put her shirt back on and cuddled with me that night. I remained a virgin for some months after that.
 
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