"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Have to Wear Glasses

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Due to short sightedness, I am now having to wear glasses.
I would wear contacts, but I'm unable to due to a 'stigmatism' (whatever that is) in one of my eyes.


I have always liked chicks with glasses (they have that sexy secretary look). But do chicks avoid guys with glasses like the plague?
I've been told I look about 26 with my glasses on. Maybe that's good, maybe it's bad...I just don't know.

Your thoughts?
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theres plenty of guys with glasses who girls swoon over.

clarke kent. -well, when he takes them off, and pulls his underwear over his pants.

george costanza. -....i take that back.

sorry my main. you're screwed.

On the plus side. atleast you have eyes. you'd be in an even worse situation without eyes.
 

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I could go out without them...but unless I get up really close, I can't see a damned thing and I can't make eye contact with chicks cos I can't see their eyes.

But at least I don't have a tiny willy :D
 

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Glasses aren't that bad. It just depends on how you present yourself. I wear glasses and I make my glasses be an asset for me. The trick is to pick out a pair you look good in, which you can do if you take a girl along with you to pick out your frames or ask the people behind the counter what they suggest (if they are pros and not just some 16 year old kids working at the store).

If you are the kind of person who parties and has this whole image/reputation of being a wild guy going, you can pick out a crazy pair of glasses which can become a conversation piece, and thus not only not get in the way but be an asset to your ability to pick up chicks.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When I got my frames, this really hot chick in the store picked them out for me.
Sadly I was an AFC and still with my LTR back then.

It's only recently I've had to start wearing them whenever I go out, so I guess it's not so bad.
I'm just very image conscious.
 

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MY girlfriend says she finds them sexy. As in she volunteers to say that as oposed to consoling me about an insecurity. So some women do find glasses sexy. I suppose it depends on how much a girl values intelligence in a partner.

Lets face it, they do make you look more intelligent even if they don't actually make you any more.
 

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Thats lucky.
I may sound intelligent, but in truth, I'm a moron in disguise!
At least I get to look intelligent and complete the whole 'appearance'
 

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Glasses also do wonders for me as a Geek Squad Agent, because people are more likely to suggest any repairs I recommend, so I can really drive that revenue! It also worked awesome in computer sales, where I could tell people they needed whatever item that we were currently pushing and got far less resistance than when some of the non-glasses wearing sales people did it.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think you have a 'nystagmus'. that's what i have too.

There are so many kinds of glasses, I'm sure you can find a pair that either flatters your looks or is inconspicious. Besides, you'll look better when you're not squinting and bumping into things.
 

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Dude, don't even worry about it. I wear glasses and I have no problem getting women. In fact, I prefer my glasses over contacts. Just get a nice, fashionable pair. The oval glasses are pretty classy right now - mine are taper-cornered squares. They're pretty thin. I have had plenty of girls tell me they dig guys with glasses. One said "for some reason, I have always found guys with glasses and earrings really sexy." (I also have earrings)

So it's not even worth worrying about. Just get don't get one of those big, pseudo-half-moon tortoise shell numbers like you had back in elementary school. Those make you look six.

Salut,

~Sloopy
 

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Wearing glasses is not a big problem (my doctor informs me that I stand a very high chance of wearing some later on in life), but more importantly it's what sort of glasses you pick that changes ppl's opinions.

Go for something that's lightweight, thin and rimless, try on a lot of pairs before you eventually pick one.
 

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Ayo make sure to get the lenses that don't reflect light off of them, u know they have those now.
 

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You could go emo and wear the thick black frame glasses. Girls dig that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
Due to short sightedness, I am now having to wear glasses.
I would wear contacts, but I'm unable to due to a 'stigmatism' (whatever that is) in one of my eyes.


I have always liked chicks with glasses (they have that sexy secretary look). But do chicks avoid guys with glasses like the plague?
I've been told I look about 26 with my glasses on. Maybe that's good, maybe it's bad...I just don't know.

Your thoughts?
You must have some very weird astigmatism, because there are contact lenses for that, the so-called toric lenses. Did your optometrist give some reason why you can't order a toric contact lens for that eye?
 

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I wear glasses and i get plenty of attention from females. I dont get many dates, but i do get noticed.
 

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It's the same principle as being bald or not amazingly good looking - it's all in the attitude.

Glasses can be an asset, definately. Spend a couple of hundred on a decent pair, it'll be worth it.
 

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i spent 900 on my glasses. It can be a nice addition to your style.
 

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Ummm....dude. They make contacts for "astigma".

I've got them in right now. They cost abit more, but they make them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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