"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Have to Wear Glasses

MidnightResistance

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I was told I couldn't have contacts.
I think I'm due another opticians appointment soon anyway.
I'll get the whole thing cleared up then.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brainman

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Go shopping for glasses with a lady whose opinion you trust, and get sexy glasses. Think of them as an accessory.

-BM
 
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Originally posted by WesCottII
Ummm....dude. They make contacts for "astigma".

I've got them in right now. They cost abit more, but they make them.
Yeah they do. They are the hard contacts. I have myopia (near-sightedness) but it's not a bad thing. If you have a good vision plan you can get some really nice frames. I have about 6 pairs of various Kenneth Cole, Calvin Klein, Guess eyeglasses and they look good for certain.

Or if you absolutely, positively can't hack it with glasses then you might be able to have the PRK/Lasik/Lasek laser eye surgery. However I must warn you, you should know what you want to do in life because you may disqualified for jobs. I want to go to flight school in the Air Force but they only accept PRK within certain pre-operation stats. My Doctor tells me that Lasik is superior but it's an instant DQ for flight school. I wouldn't even get a chance to apply.

The hard contacts I believe can deal with astigmatism. I know because I have been wearing glasses for about 14 years now and about the 6 year(1993) I tried hard contacts. I couldn't do the soft contacts though. My astigmatism error is about -1.00.

You should talk with your Optometrist but glasses are cool man! I snagged more chicks than I should have with having neat glasses on.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I've got a pair of glasses called Sillouhettes... I only wear them wehn I'm reading and when I'm in front of my computer.

I get a lot of compliments from girls who never knew I wore them... they all say it makes me look sexy in a very distinguished way.

I don't care.. glasses or no.... if they don't like me for me, fvck em

I never wear them out, though....... sometimes when I'm driving but that's about it.
 

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You might not need glasses.

I believe you can get laser treatment for Astigmatism.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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