After nearly a year of zero success using myspace as a tool for dating, I think that I'm finally going to score big.I can't give all the details but plan on meeting two different women at two different times. Neither girl is all that but sexy enough (especially after some beer in my system). One is close to my age while the other is a bit older (ten years). I am in my mid-20s. Any ideas on how to be safe and getting the most out of these dates. I told myself I would not have any more sex until I get where I want to in life or if I get a steady girlfriend (I'm still in school) but I still want to do everything else just short of sex.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I Have To Myspace Dates: All Advice Needed
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
unless ur skiptomylou broJPFromTally said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup:LA_Chico said:
:crackup:"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Livinlifehard
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expect the worst... i date mostly off internet (which is good and bad). some dates they were awsome, great, better looking then pics... some were crazy (stripers expecially), ugly as ****, and boring.
Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends
Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends
PleasureKing
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i keep seeing posts about this guy. Who is he haha?Francisco d'Anconia said::crackup:
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
My Advice :
STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.
That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.
That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
I'm okay in person, it's just harder to find the perfect macking opportunity. I always wait for the best moment to approach out of fear that I may bother the girl otherwise. When I'm online, I don't care all that much.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Livinlifehard
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she wasnt that hot man... she was ok... pretty, just not my type... she did give me my first deep throat.... she had to be breathing out her nose... and got head my first night.ryannath said: