"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Have To Myspace Dates: All Advice Needed

Juan_Man

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After nearly a year of zero success using myspace as a tool for dating, I think that I'm finally going to score big.I can't give all the details but plan on meeting two different women at two different times. Neither girl is all that but sexy enough (especially after some beer in my system). One is close to my age while the other is a bit older (ten years). I am in my mid-20s. Any ideas on how to be safe and getting the most out of these dates. I told myself I would not have any more sex until I get where I want to in life or if I get a steady girlfriend (I'm still in school) but I still want to do everything else just short of sex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scorched

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Don't seem too interested bro.
Don't make too much eye contact.
Keep them challenged!
 

JPFromTally

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If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
 

LA_Chico

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JPFromTally said:
If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
unless ur skiptomylou bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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expect the worst... i date mostly off internet (which is good and bad). some dates they were awsome, great, better looking then pics... some were crazy (stripers expecially), ugly as ****, and boring.

Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends :whistle:
 

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livinhard, are the strippers you date from myspace hot? seems like all the strippers i see have the ***** shields up on myspace and just want the attention, kinda like the porn stars.
 

So pimp its scary

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My Advice :

STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.

That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
 

Juan_Man

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I'm okay in person, it's just harder to find the perfect macking opportunity. I always wait for the best moment to approach out of fear that I may bother the girl otherwise. When I'm online, I don't care all that much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Livinlifehard

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ryannath said:
livinhard, are the strippers you date from myspace hot? seems like all the strippers i see have the ***** shields up on myspace and just want the attention, kinda like the porn stars.
she wasnt that hot man... she was ok... pretty, just not my type... she did give me my first deep throat.... she had to be breathing out her nose... and got head my first night.
 
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