"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Have To Myspace Dates: All Advice Needed

Juan_Man

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After nearly a year of zero success using myspace as a tool for dating, I think that I'm finally going to score big.I can't give all the details but plan on meeting two different women at two different times. Neither girl is all that but sexy enough (especially after some beer in my system). One is close to my age while the other is a bit older (ten years). I am in my mid-20s. Any ideas on how to be safe and getting the most out of these dates. I told myself I would not have any more sex until I get where I want to in life or if I get a steady girlfriend (I'm still in school) but I still want to do everything else just short of sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scorched

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Don't seem too interested bro.
Don't make too much eye contact.
Keep them challenged!
 

JPFromTally

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If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
 

LA_Chico

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JPFromTally said:
If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
unless ur skiptomylou bro
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Livinlifehard

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expect the worst... i date mostly off internet (which is good and bad). some dates they were awsome, great, better looking then pics... some were crazy (stripers expecially), ugly as ****, and boring.

Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends :whistle:
 

ryannath

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livinhard, are the strippers you date from myspace hot? seems like all the strippers i see have the ***** shields up on myspace and just want the attention, kinda like the porn stars.
 

So pimp its scary

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My Advice :

STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.

That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
 

Juan_Man

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I'm okay in person, it's just harder to find the perfect macking opportunity. I always wait for the best moment to approach out of fear that I may bother the girl otherwise. When I'm online, I don't care all that much.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Livinlifehard

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ryannath said:
livinhard, are the strippers you date from myspace hot? seems like all the strippers i see have the ***** shields up on myspace and just want the attention, kinda like the porn stars.
she wasnt that hot man... she was ok... pretty, just not my type... she did give me my first deep throat.... she had to be breathing out her nose... and got head my first night.
 
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