After nearly a year of zero success using myspace as a tool for dating, I think that I'm finally going to score big.I can't give all the details but plan on meeting two different women at two different times. Neither girl is all that but sexy enough (especially after some beer in my system). One is close to my age while the other is a bit older (ten years). I am in my mid-20s. Any ideas on how to be safe and getting the most out of these dates. I told myself I would not have any more sex until I get where I want to in life or if I get a steady girlfriend (I'm still in school) but I still want to do everything else just short of sex.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I Have To Myspace Dates: All Advice Needed
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
If she asks if the only way you get dates is through myspace make sure you reply "no!"
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
unless ur skiptomylou broJPFromTally said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup:LA_Chico said:
:crackup:“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Livinlifehard
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expect the worst... i date mostly off internet (which is good and bad). some dates they were awsome, great, better looking then pics... some were crazy (stripers expecially), ugly as ****, and boring.
Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends
Its a hit or miss game man, expect the unexpected. Even if there ugly and pics were "on there good side" then still try to have fun man, i never just left or made a excuse to leave. Still be a little respectful, you dont know if they have friends
PleasureKing
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i keep seeing posts about this guy. Who is he haha?Francisco d'Anconia said::crackup:
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
My Advice :
STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.
That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
STOP using internet dating, untill you start getting good in person. I've learned the hard way that most women on those dating sites are hardly the same when you meet in person.
That, and if you can't handle a woman in person... all the mac daddy moves you pull online will be lost in an instant.
I'm okay in person, it's just harder to find the perfect macking opportunity. I always wait for the best moment to approach out of fear that I may bother the girl otherwise. When I'm online, I don't care all that much.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Livinlifehard
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she wasnt that hot man... she was ok... pretty, just not my type... she did give me my first deep throat.... she had to be breathing out her nose... and got head my first night.ryannath said: